This is from my most recent blog posted on myspace. It was just a good and well thought out post, so I thought for my first blog, I should re-post. Enjoy reading about my life.
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I use to be really good about posting blogs, not just when drama occurred (which used to be often with me) or when something good happened or something bad happened. Sometimes it is just nice to vent your life across the cyber world and see what kinda reaction you can get. A lot has happened since my last REAL blog. In case anybody was wondering, the last one with all of the cute, bitchy quotes was just for fun more than anything. When I found out that my bulletins and blogs were being copied and emailed amongst people that disliked me, I had to give some more fuel to the fire. Everybody knows how much I like that.
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Me and Mark are coming up on our 1 year anniversary at the end of August. I can’t believe it. We are currently in the process of looking for a house and get a little more settled with our new life. We just got back from our first real vacation together as a married couple. We went to Florida for a week and stayed with Jen. It had been WAY too long since I had seen her. Being in a different state and away from everything made me realize how much I wish I could just pack up and move somewhere and start over. Only problem is I have too many things keeping me here right now. I love my job. I didn’t know it was possible to enjoy working somewhere and with such great people. I have been here 13 months today and signed up for my first 401K plan. I will be retiring around the year of 2050. Wow that seems a long ways away.
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I love summer, but I find it hard to stay occupied since I work full time. I can’t really go out through the week because I don’t want to be tired the next day at work; which is why I live for my weekends. For those of you that do not work full time, you will really learn to appreciate your weekends when you do start. I am still working on my paralegal degree but decided to take a break this summer. Now I wish that I hadn’t because I feel like I just wasted 2 months where I could have been taking classes and closer to graduating with my second degree. I am sure once I am done with that I will go ahead and get my Master’s. Why not? I figured that I should probably do it while I can!
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This has definitely been wedding season for me. I have 4 weddings in the next 2 months. I am so glad that my friends can find someone that they want to spend the rest of their lives with. It is truly something special to be able to picture yourself with the same person for the rest of your life. Everybody is also having babies. NO BABIES FOR BONNIE. Not yet at least. I definitely want to have kids, but I have so many other things that I want to do first and that is just what I plan on doing.
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Ahhh friends. My favorite category. My mom always told me that I would be lucky to keep up with anybody from high school. She only keeps in touch with 2 people that she graduated high school with. I graduated in 2003 and still keep in CLOSE contact with about 6 friends. And when I say friends, I mean best friends. Having friendships that last almost 10 years are few and far between. I have also lost a lot of friendships over the years. Some were for stupid reasons, some were for good reasons. I have recently tried to do the whole forgive and forget thing and I must say it is working out pretty well. As for college, I can say that other than Mark, there is really only one person that I still talk to on a regular basis and that is my one and only Chessa. We have had so many good times and I think that even though she moved back to LA we are gonna keep in touch. I have made some new friends in the past few months, and I think that was God’s way or replacing the ones that I lost. Some people say that a friend can never be replaced, but I am living proof. It’s sad when someone cannot balance more than one friend at a time, and unfortunately I was the friend that got put on the back burner. But like the saying goes, you live and you learn and my personal favorite….shit happens. I suppose I have rambled on enough here and hopefully I can get back in my habit of doing these more often. After all, my haters need a way to check up on me right. Besides, I like for people to see how truly happy and blessed I really am. If you are one of my friends that is reading this I Love You!
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